Spank Her 4 Real

A Submissive under Consideration

2012-02-11T06:25:00.000-08:00

So I get this email from a submissive named Samantha who lives near me and she wants me to consider her as a submissive. I get this a lot and don't usually take is serious. However, our correspondence lately leads me to believe that she is truly sincere.

Dear Sir,

My name is Samantha and I just recently discovered how close I live to you. I have watched your videos and believe I would benefit from your guidance and discipline. I was previously involved in a Loving Domestic Discipline relationship and realize how necessary it is for me to be accountable for times when I am out of line. While I do not enjoy the pain of spankings and firm discipline, I realize they help me to become a better person by learning to be more respectful, obedient, submissive, and feminine.

I am wondering if you would consider accepting me into your family as a submissive for your guidance, nurturing, training, and discipline. I would like to know if there is an introduction period (ie a physical inspection, evaluation of obedience, etc.) or anything else I might anticipate should you allow me to submit to you.

Sincerely,

Samantha

I spank my wife: Spend, spend, spend!

2012-02-09T04:02:00.000-08:00

I spank my wife: Spend, spend, spend!: Overall I'd have to say my wife is pretty good with keeping to our budget. However, she does have moments were she fails miserably...

Happy Anniversary!!

2012-02-08T03:56:00.000-08:00

It was last year, February 8th, that Spank Her 4 Real became a reality.

Last year at this time we had no video clips on Spankingtube and as of today we have 30 clips with over 950,000 views.

This blog had about 50,000 hits last year and since then we've had 324,000.

We've sold a little over 400 video clips and I've made a lot of bottoms go from Lily white to Blushing red. We haven't made much money because much of it now goes back into the business, like all startups. But we're still happy with how things are progressing.

Our girls so far have been Rose.

Ember

Taylor

Jenna

Nichole

Izzy

Some obstacles I hadn't foreseen have been finding models. Personally, I thought that living in the Seattle area would be a plus. I mean I figured finding models in the Seattle area would be a lot easier than finding them in Lincoln, Nebraska.

I'm hoping more women will approach us this next year for spankings but you never know. I've taken multiple opportunities in approaching women who, according to their profile on various fetish sites, are open to doing spanking videos. However, I've learned that when it comes down to reality they chicken out. So, we've decided to sit back and just let them call us.

So, here's to this next year with a goal of spanking twice as many bottoms and selling twice as many clips. If we do twice as many clips I'll be spending most of my time spanking and editing them. Oh well, someone has to do it.

Izzy's Bad Grades

2012-02-06T17:41:00.000-08:00

Izzy's Bad Grades

Izzy is going to school for a degree and needs to keep her grades no lower than a B. However, she's been having trouble lately and feels a sound spanking will help her remember to study and keep upher grades.

Implement(s): Hand

Position(s): OTK, Diaper, Kneeling on all fours

Time/Price: 8 min / $8.99

Purchase Clip: Clips4Sale or Spankinglibrary

Spanking, It's not just a job, it's an adventure!

2012-02-04T08:00:00.000-08:00

I easily recall the first time I spanked a submissive. I had met a couple through a local Kink publication who were into BDSM. I was into spanking and hadn't spanked my first bottom yet.

I went over to their place and couldn't have met a more delightful and curvy submissive. He wanted to watch her get spanked and serve another Dom and was willing to let me participate in that adventure.

It was the first time I had oral sex performed on me. I was divorced from my first wife and she would never have been oral with me. As we began he invited me to train her by explaining what I liked and how she should do it and if she did it wrong I should spank her. It was delightful to say the least. That also became my first time to perform oral sex too. She was smoothy shaved and it provided a most wonderful surface to explore. Since then I've insisted on my submissive being shaved.

When I married again, my second wife went right into giving me oral but at first we were just a vanilla couple. Later in our marriage I finally explained to her my fetish, if you will, with spanking. She honestly couldn't have been more accepting. I learned that she was into spanking reasons of Domestic Discipline and for sexual fun. That's when spanking went from fantasy to reality and now it's both.

I'm sure those who aren't into spanking are most likely into something else that would be considered kinky. We're all human and have our own likes, loves, dislikes and hates.

What's been funny to me lately is being on sites like Fetlife and Collarme and friending local submissives who claim to want, need and desire a spanking. I've met with a few and it seems they just wanted to talk about spanking and not really get spanked. There's an endless amount of correspondence that I seem to get from submissives who claim they want to get spanked but haven't yet gone through with it. I say it's funny because years before the Internet it was almost impossible to find a partner or partners and now it's so much easier. Keep in mind these are submissives I've met and talked with face to face first. It seems they're searching for something but don't know what it is. And I tend to hear from them every other week or so. They draw near and then pull back. Perhaps it is a good thing we haven't gotten to the spanking. Because if we did I would definitely be blistering their bottoms.

Well I've got to get going. Izzy is in need of yet another spanking and she will be coming over to get just that. She wasn't specific about what she needed the spanking for but if I know her she'll probably need a blistering.

I haven't heard from Nichole in awhile. She moved north a bit and must have a lot going on right now. Maybe she's been getting into mischief and knows that if she contacts me she'll get a real butt warmer?

My Favorite Positions to Spank Part 2.

2012-02-03T04:10:00.000-08:00

From the Clip: Taylor's Second Training Session

This is a very affective position to spank in while standing. It keeps her mouth busy and at the same time allows for an open area to strike if needed.

From the Clip: Taylor's First Training Session

Again this leaves her bottom exposed and ready for swatting in case she's not putting all she has into servicing me.

From the Clip: Taylor Learns Her Lesson

This position is a restful position for your spankee while she gives a handjob. It also leaves her exposed to getting swats by simply leaning over.

From the Clip: Taylor Learns Her Lesson

The picture above and below demonstrate yet another position that makes her bottom available while she services me.

From the Clip: Taylor Learns Her Lesson

My Favorite Positions to Spank Part 1.

2012-01-28T05:52:00.000-08:00

Of course there's always the standard OTK (Over-the-Knee) spanking. My favorite way to administer a good ol' fashion OTK is a solid wooden, armless, chair with the spankee's panties down.

That usually starts out with her bottom covered at first but I always prefer to get the bare bottom showing so I get a clear view of the effect the palm of my hand is making. I don't want to spank too hard yet I want to make a nice and effective red glow to appear.

In the end I want to see red, on the end.

There's OTK on the bed which makes for a longer spanking because the spankee's upper body is in a more restful position.

One of my favorite versions of OTK is what I call "Straddled OTK". This is a more subdued form because you can hold her right arm and lock your legs and it makes it virtually impossible for her to get free, on those serious discipline spanking occasions.

Of course, if you've seen or purchased any of our clips, you know the "Diaper" position is one of my favorite.

It fully exposes the naughty young lady and also gives her a few of seeing when each smack is to happen.

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It's effective with just the hand or using a paddle.

The best thing I've noticed the most is it tends to sting a bit more in that position too.

Of course there are so many ways to utilize common furniture too.

Middle School Girl Attacked on the bus.

2012-01-27T13:34:00.000-08:00

I'll warn you now that this video is very disturbing. It shows a girl being beaten on a Marion County school bus by several students on their way to Liberty Middle School in Ocala. Yes, middle school. What are we teaching our kids today?

I saw this on the news and literally cried. I truly don't know what I would do, as a father, if this happened to my daughter. Why are children acting this way? What is wrong with our society that children do this for a seat on the bus?

You can read more about this at http://www.ocala.com/article/20120125/articles/120129796

Jewelry is a no no.

2012-01-25T03:50:00.000-08:00

Okay, either no one wanted to participate or no one caught it. My wife caught it right from the start. Jewelry! Jewelry is a big no no when it comes to spanking for both Spanker and spankee. Now some might say well it's just a silly instruction, or how to, clip but if that's even the case you shouldn't instruct someone on how to spank by spanking with jewelry on.

I don't think I have to go into the dangers of spanking with jewelry on so I won't go into it. If you're a spanker who has seriously spanked with your ring on then you know how much it hurt you when you spanked. You should have also noticed the marks left on the spankee. And those spankee's who have been spanked with jewelry on the Spanker's hand know how much that hurt and the bruises left.

How to spank videos

2012-01-24T04:06:00.000-08:00

I would have to say the only "How to" spank videos I've ever liked came from Nu-West. I haven't been able to find them, over the years I've lost my originals. But I remember one with Kiri Kelly and Peaches and it was a really good one.

Anyway, all other since then are pretty much laughable to me when it comes to them showing how to spank. The swats are silly both the impact and the way the Spankee swats.

In addition many of them make mistakes in their videos that, for me really stand out. So now you should be able to see the big mistake both for the Spanker and the spankee.

A BIG mistake in Spanking!

2012-01-22T06:06:00.000-08:00

Now apart from this being one of the dumbest spanking videos you may have ever seen, even if you don't understand French, what's majorly wrong with this spanking?

Feel free to leave a comment if you know what it is. This video is from SpankingMaster75. Yea right, he's a spanking master alright.

Izzy Caught at the Casino!

2012-01-21T05:52:00.000-08:00

Izzy came to me explaining that she needed help in keeping to her budget and afterward received her first spanking from me.

But not long after that she was caught at a local Casino where she once again blew her budget.

I left a message for her to come over and no sooner had she walked in the room her second spanking began.

This time starting with my hand, then the paddle, then I used my belt and a wooden hair brush.

I ended her sound spanking with her over my knee and delivering the final spanking with the palm of my hand.

This time I used a wide variety of positions and a variety of implements besides the palm of my hand.

Izzy got to feel the sting of my paddle in quit a few positions.

Then I took off my belt and strapped her bottom good.

Finally, Izzy straddled my knee and I finished her spanking with the palm of my hand.

Afterward she got up and gave me a hug and promised to do what she was told and follow her budget.

Implement(s): Hand, Paddle, Hairbrush, Leather Belt

Position(s): OTK, Diaper, Kneeling on all fours,

Time/Price: 9 min / $9.99

Purchase Clip: Clips4Sale or Spankinglibrary

Spankingtube Comments;

OMG...awesome ..I absolutely have this as a fav..ty for sharing with us..a 5!!!

Holy hell he spanks hard! Wouldn't take me long to follow rules in that house!

Quite a punishment - love that fish paddle. Where did you get it?

WOW!! She can take one HARD spanking!!

wow i love all you vids great spanker

Great spanking clip. Your videos are some of the very best I have ever seen.

Should have got to the strap sooner. Pretty butt, especially with some nice color on it.

Izzy's hard lesson in Budgeting.

2012-01-18T17:50:00.000-08:00

Some girls just have to learn the hard way when it comes to keeping a budget.

Budgeting is one of those things I've found many young women have trouble doing. In Izzy's case she just had to buy new shoes that cost way over what she could afford.

Izzy got to learn the hard way that going over your budget isn't good for your bank account and worse for your bottom.

Hopefully the lesson taught was a lesson learned.

Love this Song!

2012-01-18T07:32:00.000-08:00

Snow Days

2012-01-17T10:03:00.000-08:00

We don't usually get a lot, or much, snow where we live. This is our first snow fall for the winter and it started yesterday. The weather man says we're in for a large dump of snow tomorrow, about 12". For us that's a whole lot of snow. Because we don't see that much snow up here there aren't many snow plows out compared to say Denver. When it snows like this we all just stay in our homes until it passes.

So today I think I'll just put on some DVD's and watch them while we wait for our little storm to hit us. Maybe we'll be able to also have a spanking good time too. We'll see.

Izzy Learns to Budget!

2012-01-15T05:23:00.000-08:00

Izzy is working and going to college but blowing her budget and getting into trouble financially. She gets in trouble with other things but right now she needs to be taught how to budget and Ron has a perfect way to teach her. She's like every early twenties girl who starts that life journey on her own but needs guidance with a firm hand.

I sat down with Izzy and we talked out what I knew needed to be done. She explained that if she was still living at home she'd still be getting spanked so this wasn't much different.

So across my lap she went and the spanking began.

Implement(s): Hand, Paddle

Position(s): OTK, Diaper, Kneeling on chair

Time/Price: 14 min / $14.99

Purchase Clip: Clips4Sale or Spankinglibrary

Izzy's first spanking from me!

2012-01-14T09:06:00.000-08:00

A co-worker of Nichole's found out recently that Nichole gets spanked for various things. Izzy, Nichole's friend at work, is also a full time student at a local Community College.

Apparently Izzy spent a bit too much money on frivolous items and didn't budget for the books she needed to purchase for the Winter quarter at school. She's always had a problem budgeting and this time it caused her to have to go to a local pawn shop and take out loans for a few things so she could get her books. Nichole, I think, thought "Misery loves company" so she told Izzy she probably needed a good spanking.

Izzy laughed at her remark but later confided with Nichole that if she was living at home she would have gotten spanked. But home is a in Nebraska and Seattle is too far to travel for just the spanking she needs. At least that's how she explained it to Nichole. Nichole said that a few days later Izzy actually told her that a good spanking from time to time would really help her get her act together. Even if she just had the real threat of a spanking it would help.

You know how some girls seem to be able to talk to others about anything. Well, Nichole didn't have a problem telling Izzy that she know someone who could take care of her spending problem and help her focus on budgeting. There conversation was quite involved and Nichole gave Izzy my email address.

So, last week Izzy emailed me and explained how she thought Nichole might be right about me helping her with budgeting and other areas in her life she needs to work on. As a result Izzy is coming over today and we're going to discuss what will help her with troubled areas in her life.

A Dangerous Method

2012-01-12T16:16:00.000-08:00

Well, it looks like this might be a good movie with spanking. It has top actors and the film maker is well known too. I had provided a clip for the film but it kept coming on automatically and was annoying readers.

SpankHer4Real Preview 1

2012-01-11T03:57:00.000-08:00

This clip is packed with 31 previews for everyone of our clips up to December 6, 2011 and contains 87 minutes of mostly naughty spanked bottoms.

This is a great way to take a better look at all of our clips to see which ones interest you the most. Even though it's a Preview clip it's packed with a whole lot of spanked red bottoms.

Ember

Taylor

Rose Mary Red

Jenna

Nichole

Implement(s): Hand, Hair brush, paddle

Position(s): OTK, Standing bent over, diaper, sex and spanking, submissive training,

Time/Price: 87 min / $19.99

Purchase Clip: Clips4Sale

Happy Birthday Elvis Presley!

2012-01-08T04:41:00.000-08:00

Had he lived, today January 8th, would have been Elvis' 77th birthday. I can't help but wonder how many times he spanked Priscilla Presley, he was 10 years older than her and from that generation who didn't see spanking your wife as strange or odd.

Like a lot of people from my generation I can remember where I was when I heard "The King" was dead. That was 1977 and he was only 42 years old, 35 years ago.

Well I really have no doubt he was a spanker so here's to Elvis. Happy Birthday.

Why Spank at all?

2012-01-07T05:29:00.000-08:00

Why spank at all? If there's a problem in the relationship why not discuss the problem and work it out without spanking?

In my spanking relationships discussing the problem is a given. Spanking relationships are really no different than Vanilla ones. The main difference is that two adults have sat down and decided that the best way to resolve certain conflicts within the relationship is through spanking.

This does at least two things. One it causes the Spanker to be more responsible than the spankee. You can't justify spanking someone for bad behavior if you the Spanker are guilty of the same behavior. The Spanker should always be looking at their actions and set the example. The second thing it does is make the spankee accountable. Generally the spankee is the one who is constantly battling something like tardiness, pickup after themselves, keeping appointments, etc. It doesn't make the spankee a terrible person but they and their Spankee realize that the best way to keep them on track is through spanking their naughty bottoms.

It's really a respect thing too. I don't respect a woman who wouldn't willingly get across my lap for a spanking when she needs it. And most women who get spanked wouldn't get across the lap for a spanking if they didn't respect their Spanker. In other words, "He's not a real man if he doesn't spank me." Trust me I've heard that many, many times.

#1 Female for 2012 needing a good spanking!

2012-01-06T04:00:00.000-08:00

Tiger Woods' ex-wife when she bought a $12 million home and bulldozed the whole thing. She is top of my list. If you have so much money you can throw away 12 million dollars like that you need a long hard spanking. She could have done a hundred other things, like donate it or something. Instead she throws a tantrum.

Now doesn't that smirk look like it needs to be spanked away and taught a lesson?

Spanking works wonders!

2012-01-04T03:58:00.000-08:00

It's a strange thing really. In vanilla relationships the husband might say, "The house is getting too cluttered," and the stay at home wife might reply, "I'll try to work on it today." If she doesn't then who knows what happens.

In a HOH, CDD household the husband might say, "The house is getting too cluttered," and the stay at home wife might reply, "I'll work on it today." The difference is that she knows that it's gotten too cluttered, right now because of the Holidays and now she has heard it's time to get back to organization of the household. She also knows that if she doesn't get the house, living room at least, in order by the time the husband comes home he will sit down at the kitchen bench, pull down her pants and panties and spank her because she knows it should have been done.

This relationship works well for so many relationships out there because it's straight forward and honest. There's no bantering or arguing. It's simple, "This needs to get done and it's your job to do it." When it doesn't get done then motivation is needed.

Video About God's Step Children - Part 2

2012-01-02T08:39:00.000-08:00

Top Spanko States for 2011

2012-01-01T04:22:00.000-08:00

I do love statistics. Last year this blog had 285,000 hits. We had hits from every State but these were the top Spanko States.

New York
3821

California
3738

Texas
2416

Washington
2356

Pennsylvania
2200

Florida
2104

Illinois
1775

Ohio
1759

New Jersey
1469

Michigan
1345

Those who have left us in 2011

2011-12-29T03:54:00.000-08:00

Comic book artist Joe Simon, who created Captain America with the late Jack Kirby, died at age 98 on Dec. 14, 2011

Actor Harry Morgan, known for portraying Colonel Sherman T. Potter in "M*A*S*H" and Detective Bill Gannon in "Dragnet," died at the age of 96 on Dec. 7, 2011.

"The Family Circus" creator Bil Keane, whose kid-friendly comic strip gave readers a funny version of his own life at home and became one of the most widely syndicated cartoon panels in the world, has died at age 89.

Former heavyweight World boxing champion Joe Frazier died in Philadelphia a month after being diagnosed with liver cancer. He died at the age of 67 years old on Monday, Nov. 7.

Steve Jobs shows off the new Macbook Air ultra portable laptop during his keynote speech at the MacWorld Conference & Expo in San Francisco.

Dolores Hope, who throughout her 69-year marriage to comedian Bob Hope oversaw their charitable giving and played a key role in establishing the Eisenhower Medical Center in Rancho Mirage, died at her home in Toluca Lake. She was 102.

Cliff Robertson, who starred as John F. Kennedy in a 1963 World War II drama and later won an Academy Award for his role in "Charly," died on Sept. 10, one day after his 88th birthday.

Television genius, Sherwood Schwartz, the man who created "The Brady Bunch" and "Gilligan's Island", died at the age of 94. (Reuters)

'Columbo' actor Peter Falk died June 23. Falk won four Emmys for his portrayal of the detective sporting his signature overcoat. He also received two Academy Award nominations during his long acting career. Falk was 83.

Actor James Arness died June 3, 2011. At 6' 7", he towered over his co-stars on the show "Gunsmoke" where he played Marshal Matt Dillon for 20 years. Arness was 83.

"Grease" and "Taxi" actor Jeff Conaway died on May 27 in Encino, California. He was 60.

Jackie Cooper, who came to prominence as a child star in the 1930s and went on to develop a long career as a director and character actor, died on May 3 in Beverly Hills. He was 88.

Michael Sarrazin, a tall, dark-eyed Canadian actor who starred opposite Jane Fonda in Sydney Pollack's 1969 film "They Shoot Horses, Don't They?", died of cancer on April 17 at a Montreal hospital. He was 70.

American Film Institute "Female Legend" and three-time Academy Award-winning actress Elizabeth Taylor died March 23. She was 79.

British actor Michael Gough, probably most well known for his role as butler Alfred Pennyworth in the Batman movies of the late '80s and early '90s, died on March 17. He was 94.

In this August 1978 file photo, CBS News producer and correspondent Andrew Rooney poses for photos in his New York office. Former "60 Minutes" commentator Andy Rooney died on November 5, 2011, about six weeks after retiring, at age 92.

This Nov.8,2006, file photo supplied by Warner Home Video shows actress Anne Francis posing with Robby the Robot at a screening to commemorate the 50th anniversary of the film, "Forbidden Planet," in Los Angeles. Francis, who was the love interest in the 1950s science-fiction classic "Forbidden Planet" and later was sexy private eye Honey West" on TV, died on January 3, 2011. She was 80.

Gerry Rafferty, the Scottish singer-songwriterbehind hit songs "Baker Street" and "Stuck in the Middle WithYou," died on January 4, 2011. He was 63.

This file photo taken May 9, 1996, on the Hollywood Walk of Fame in Los Angeles actor and director David Nelson poses with his grandson Michael Woolery and family friend Ashley Holt as he is honored with the 2,065th star. Nelson, who starred on his parents' popular television show, "The Adventures of Ozzie and Harriet " died in Los Angeles Monday. He was 74.

Physical fitness expert Jack LaLanne strikes a characteristic pose as he takes the first official step on his star on the Hollywood Walk of Fame, and his 88th birthday. LaLanne passed away at the age 96 on January 23, 2011 from respiratory failure due to pneumonia.

In this 1968 film publicity image originally released by Embassy Pictures, Kenneth Mars portrays a Hitler-worshipping playwright in a scene from "The Producers." Mars died Saturday, Feb. 12, 2011, of pancreatic cancer at his home in Grenada Hills, Calif. He was 75.

In this April 25, 2005 file photo, actress Jane Russell arrives for the premiere of "XXX: State of the Union," in the Westwood section of Los Angeles. A family member on Monday, Feb. 28, 2011 said Russell, stunning star of 1940s and 1950s films, has died at age 89.

Loving Dominant or Sadistic Narcissist!

2011-12-28T03:58:00.000-08:00

The world is filled with all kinds of people, many of them are "Do undo others as they would have others do unto them". Unfortunately there are also people who have the attitude, "Do unto others before they get a chance to do it to you." So much goes into who we were, are and will end up being in our lives.

I've observed a man and his wife in a store buying groceries and it's clear she is subservient to his every wish but certainly not in any good way. I've watched as she tries to please him with picking out fruit or vegetables, meat and bread. You can see that what she does is never good enough or right to him. She lives in a constant state of fear. I've wondered, "If it's like that now, what's it like at home and do they have kids who work at pleasing him too?" I call him, or that kind of personality the "Sadistic Narcissist".

Whether he's a Spanker or into BDSM, or just plain Vanilla, he's the kind of guy that gives the rest of us men a bad name. The world revolves around him and when it doesn't he gets upset and strikes out. When you have a Spanker or BDSM'er who is the "Sadistic Narcissist" it's got to be worse. I've met that kind of Spanker. He's a Spanker because that's how he "thinks" he controls his anger. But it's not just anger it's that HE comes first. Everything is about pleasing him for the sake of pleasing him. He believes he's more worthy than anyone else and deserves first and foremost attention. In reality he's more of a child and insecure than anything. But when that child gets angry watch out.

Look for the signs, if you're a submissive seeking a Dominant. A Loving Dominant spanks to correct a behavior the submissive has and wants corrected. The SN (Sadistic Narcissist) spanks or hits because anything you do could set him off. A Loving Dominant lets you know what you could and would get spanked for and the SN loves to keep you guessing. The Loving Dominant isn't lurking around every corner to find an excuse to abuse. A Loving Dominant doesn't abuse.

I suppose the list of Does and Don'ts can go on and on. The fact too is that many people who aren't Spankers would say spanking is abusive. For me and my household spanking isn't abusive and never will be.

My Christmas Gift!

2011-12-26T07:40:00.000-08:00

This Christmas was a very good Christmas for my household. I've had steady work in the industry I work in for the last 4 months compared to last year there was no work. The best gifts for us this year have been that we've been able to pay the bills on time.

Christmas dinner was great and I took a pretty long nap too. I woke up to hear the girls playing the new Wii game and that was a nice sound to wake up to.

I'm sure I speak for all Americans when I say my hope for next year is a much improved economy. They've been calling this the Great Recession but I don't at all see what was so great about it. Seriously, I do hope this next year is better for everyone.

So my gift for Christmas this year was laughter and joy and the company of loved ones. I hope yours was a good or better.

We wish you a Merry Christmas!

2011-12-24T06:07:00.000-08:00

Christmas day is almost here.

With family and presents and good Christmas cheer.

The tree is all trimmed and the stockings are hung.

With Carolers gathering so songs can be sung.

Tomorrow we'll feast on the turkey and ham.

With stuffing and tatters and muffins and jam.

Tonight we will wrap all the presents assigned.

With joy in our hearts and Christ on our mind.

We find ourselves joyful and thankful this day.

With all we've been given we cannot repay.

So from all of us here at Spank Her 4 Real.

We wish you Merry Christmas and a Spanking New Year!

From Ron, Rose, Ember and the Rest!

Vintage Spanking Clip

2011-12-23T04:06:00.000-08:00

Here's a vintage spanking clip I stumbled across. It's interesting to say the least.

A Very Effective Position!

2011-12-22T03:56:00.000-08:00

Nichole

My girls cringe when they here me say, "Get in the diaper position". The first time I told Nichole to get in that position she was hesitant because it was her first time. Her reaction was quite priceless and caught on camera too.

Ember

Ember's first time was caught on camera too. The legs went up without a thought and once the first smack came down she wanted her legs down too.

Taylor

It was easy to tell it was Taylor's first time as well. Her eyes teared up immediately as she gripped the bed cover to bear each blow.

Rose

The first time for Rose produced a "Holy Shit". Each of the girls got into their positions and stayed there until I was finished spanking their naughty bottoms. It really is one of the most effective ways to grab their attention!

I give two kinds of spankings.

2011-12-20T15:10:00.000-08:00

I give two kinds of spankings, generally. One is the sound and hard spanking from beginning to end. The other is more of a warm up spanking and ends sound and hard. My wife like neither of them but accepts which ever spanking I'm going to give her.

Because her spanking are real she doesn't like to be told at noon, from a text when I'm at work, that she's going to get a spanking when I get home. She gets filled with anxiety and thinks about it so much that she can't get anything else done.

It's best that when I wake up in the morning, around 3:30 to get ready for work, and see she failed to do something she was told to do that I wait until I get home. She wants her spanking fairly quick after she's been told that one is due. A big part of it is that she feels she's disappointed me and doesn't want to feel that for very long. If she's told early in the morning that a spanking is due when I get home then that disappointment and anxiety is terrible.

Her spankings are great therapy because once she gets spanked for something, she usually does really well to not repeat what she did or failed to do.

After her spanking is over she is very quick to wrap her arms around my neck and hug me tight. I would imagine those who don't understand Domestic Discipline at all would be more inclined to leap of my lap and run. But then they wouldn't have gotten across my lap to begin with and I certainly wouldn't have put them there.

Redbottomed Redhead: Laundry Lapsed!

2011-12-20T04:10:00.000-08:00

Spanking is good for adjusting my wife's attitude and actions!

Redbottomed Redhead: Laundry Lapsed!: I sometimes get distracted and lack the necessary follow-through on basic household chores. My husband has given me reminders when I have w...

Sometimes you just have to Spank!

2011-12-19T14:34:00.000-08:00

Most times I give a warning that a spanking is near if certain things aren't done or don't happen. I had just given that warning last weekend and today, Monday, I find that the same thing I gave a warning about is still not being done. So today, in a little while it's spanking time.

Rules

2011-12-17T08:00:00.000-08:00

I have a RULE! I never have a rule that I couldn't follow myself. In other words if I can't take a dish, or glass, from the living room to the kitchen sink, then I shouldn't make a rule that everyone else must, including mine and if they don't they get spanked.

No one wants to go around on pins and needles wondering if this or that will get them spanked. No one should have to follow a rule that, for the most part, can't be followed. If I told my wife, "You're to never go to bed without having dusted every piece of furniture in the house," that would be ridiculous. That would be me looking for every chance to spank her kind of rule.

The reality is, and she would agree, I don't have to look hard at all to find a reasonable chance and reason to spank her.

As I look around, especially this time of year, in malls and grocery stores I see one logical reason after another to spank women, and funny thing is, so does my wife. She will even point out women with spankable bottoms if I don't see them first. Or make a comment about how that woman's bottom should be blistered for acting this way or that way. A lot of times all we have to do is look at each other after witnessing a woman in need of a good spanking and we know just what we're both thinking.

I spank my wife: My Story

2011-12-16T03:35:00.000-08:00

I spank my wife: My Story: The first time I was married was in 1976 and I was 18 years old, she was 17. We didn't have to get married and looking back now we sho...

Bondage Videos

2011-12-15T03:35:00.000-08:00

I would be the last to say that some Kinky things shouldn't be done. But for me, BDSM, Bondage and other kinks other than spanking just aren't for me. I bring this up because we get emails asking when and if we're going to do Bondage or BDSM clips. For me they don't fall into the Domestic Discipline genre. I couldn't see, shouldn't see and don't want to see a Dad spanking is daughter while she's bound and gagged. Same as spanking my wife.

BDSM has its release and fun for those who enjoy it but as for watching it, for me, it's not my cup of tea. I guess it's because it's in a way, set up. But mostly it's because it doesn't do a thing for me. The only time I've enjoyed watching it was when "Kyrie Kelly" started doing them and it was only because of her. I liked her and I simply wanted a complete collection of all her vids. I probably watched the BDSM ones once, maybe twice, and haven't really seen them since.

Spanked Hitch Hiker

I always prefer the OTK type of spanking Kyrie received because of her lovely bottom and squirming style.

Spanked Hitch Hiker

The scenes where some odd things were used to strap her down and all may have been creative but for me too set up and staged. But again that's just me.

I'm more interested in filming and viewing spanking videos where the spankee is sent to her room to get ready for a spanking and not go to your room and get ready to be strapped in and bound. In a true and real sense I'm interested in the true to life and what really happens.

Now to all the BDSM'ers out there. Don't write in with comments that I'm against BDSM and think it's strange or something. I'm just saying I'm a more Spanking purest and not into BDSM. If BDSM is your thing then go for it.

Nichole Breaks Her Diet!

2011-12-12T02:52:00.000-08:00

Nichole is serious about dropping some weight so she'll do what it takes to shed the pounds.

She agreed to stay on a strike diet and NOT to raid the kitchen for food before bedtime.

However, this time she sneaks into the kitchen and is caught but learns that it would have been better to just stick to her diet.

Implement(s): Hand
Position(s): OTK, Standing bent over,

Time/Price: 7 min / $7.99
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To Spank or Not to Spank

2011-12-10T05:49:00.001-08:00

Friday morning I left for work with a picture of the living room in my head. Later, after getting to work I realized I wanted to discuss the living room situation with my household so that it was clear to everyone that empty glasses, opened and read mail, shoes, etc, were picked up every night. That way I, and everyone else, comes out to a relatively clean living room in the morning.

I later texted my wife to tell her I wanted to talk about the living room when I got home. It is her responsibility to keep the house in order but others should be putting things away that they use or bring out and not use her as a maid. So I simply wanted to make that clear. You bring something into the living room to use, take it away when you're done. I then received a text back from her saying, "Does talking about the living room mean OTK?"

She revealed at least on thing when she sent her text to me and that was that she was aware the living room needed attention. I must say I liked the idea that she thought she was in for a spanking because of the mess in the living room, however, the mess in the living room was caused by others simply not putting their things away so she did not have a spanking coming. I simply wanted to talk with everyone and I suppose, give warning, that they need to put their things away or there would be some OTK happening when they don't.

So, we get that settled, that I just want to talk and not spank about the living room and no sooner do I get a text saying that she has run out of gas. Now, here's the thing. She shouldn't have run out of gas because the vehicle she ran out of gas in wasn't suppose to leave the driveway. But, because she was running late, she decided that driving just a few miles wouldn't be a big deal. Apparently, just as she drove into the parking lot it staled and she ran out of gas right then and there.

When I get home from work I'm pretty beat. My drive home takes about 45 minutes and by the time I peal myself out of the car my body wants to do nothing but shower and rest. So when it happens that I have to come home, grab a gas can, drive to the gas station and then put gas in a vehicle that shouldn't be where it is when I'm putting gas in it, then I get a tad upset.

You could see it on her face the entire time too. The question of "Am I going to get spanked here in the parking lot or at home?" And the "All's well that ends well" stuff that she came up with was priceless too. By the time it was all over and I drove it back to the driveway of our home I could only think about how much I loved her and that all I would really do was give her a warning that, "Next time I say don't drive the vehicle, don't drive it or your bottom gets blistered." Now you have to picture that when I said this she was over my lap with her pants still on wondering when they would be coming down and how hard and long the spanking would be. Instead she gave her uncontrollable nervous giggle of relief after finding out there wasn't going to be a spanking and gave me a huge hug instead.

So I went through all that to tell you that sometimes "Not Spanking" is just as effective as "Spanking". That's my perspective and I'm sticking to it!

Redbottomed Redhead: Crossing the Line

2011-12-09T03:48:00.000-08:00

Redbottomed Redhead: Crossing the Line: I was in court yesterday and heard testimony from a father about a spanking he gave his daughter. It surprised me that he was reading from ...

Spank Her 4 Real DVD's

2011-12-06T15:41:00.001-08:00

Our newest DVD is priced for Christmas. It's our Spank Her 4 Real Preview #1 DVD and contains 31 preview clips. That's all of our clips to date and this DVD is packed with a few Demo clips not shown on SpankingTube.com.

Our viewers on Spankingtube give our demo clips some of the highest ratings and of course wonderful reviews and input.

This DVD is a real fun way to view all of our clips to date and see which full versions you'll want for the Holidays. This DVD has a special price of $15.99 for the month of December only.

Our DVD's are only available through our Videos4Sale store.

Demo clip of "Nichole's Confession"

2011-12-04T05:14:00.001-08:00

Nichole's Confession Demo

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Nichole's behavior is improving

2011-12-02T09:39:00.001-08:00

What a difference a spanking, or two, makes. Nichole first came to me wanting to be trained, and frankly, didn't know all of what that entailed. For the most part, like other girls her age, she's a pretty good girl. However, like most girls her age, she needs instruction and guidance that she didn't get at home.

Many girls her age feel that if they bat their eyes and wiggle their bottoms they can pretty much get what they want. That's generally true for boys but when it comes to men she has a lot to learn.

Nichole has gotten a lot better at just doing and not asking "why". She's found that asking the "why" gets her bottom extra sore.

She's now gotten to the stage of her training where she realizes that if she confesses first her spanking is much lighter than it would be if she was caught.

Still, the spanking must sting in order to correct her behavior and so far I've only used the palm of my hand to get the point across.

I do like a variety of positions.

And I always like to leave the bottom a nice red.

It does make it hard to sit afterward but then I'm not the one sitting.

A few stills from Nichole's Confession.

Nichole's Confession!

2011-12-01T05:06:00.001-08:00

Nichole's Confession!

Nichole, like many naughty young ladies, can't go very long with a guilty conscience. At some point she has to tell on herself, or confess things she's been doing that she shouldn't be doing. In thisclip Nichole has been leaving candles burning and the wax drips all the way to her rug. If that wasn't enough the candles could start a fire and the consequences could be devastating.

Needless to sayNichole's spanking will be a reminder every time she sits down for the next few days that burning candles irresponsibly and leaving lights on day and night gets her a very sore bottom. Nicholeexperiences standing in front of the fireplace, where candle wax has also dripped, and more swats to her reddening behind.

Implement(s): Hand

Position(s): OTK, Standing bent over,

Time/Price: 12 min / $12.99
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Photo for today

2011-11-30T14:12:00.001-08:00

Now that's what I call drumming! They never did that when I was in college.

Nichole's Confession

2011-11-29T18:17:00.001-08:00

Needless to say Nichole's spanking will be a reminder every time she sits down for the next few days that burning candles irresponsibly and leaving lights on day and night gets her a very sore bottom.

Nichole experiences standing in front of the fireplace, where candle wax has also dripped, and more swats to her reddening behind.

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It's all around you

2011-11-28T05:09:00.001-08:00

It seemed like the day I really embraced being a spanker it was all around me. I remember so vividly being over at my sister's house, some 25+ years ago, and her husband giving her a spanking for the house not being cleaned up. It was a real spanking and not just a spanking for fun in front of me. Then didn't realize I was there. I had stayed with them for a few weeks and had come home from work to hear my sister pleading as smacks came down on her covered backside.

There was another time when I had met a southern bell who wanted to be with me in the worst way. I wasn't at all interested at the time because of other things going on in my life at the time. I finally, thinking it was a way of getting rid of her, said, "Look you wouldn't like me once you get to know me. Because the first time you disobey me and not do what you're told I'll blister you naked bottom." I was expecting her to say, "I'm out of here," but instead, with her Southern drawl replied, "Well of course." Needless to say she wasn't lying. Long story short she got her bottom blistered several times during our year together. She wasn't at all used to getting spanked and then fucked either and once that happened she was forever hooked.

I hear, or read, of many Submissives and Dominants who seem to not be able to find someone. I have to say that sometimes it's just a matter of sitting back and listening to what's already in your life. Sometimes we want something so bad we miss the obvious.

We are now SpankHer4Real.com too!

2011-11-26T08:09:00.001-08:00

We are now SpankHer4Real.com too and working on a complete website for our video clip downloads and pictures, etc. So if you type in Spankher4Real.com now it will send you to SpankHer4Real.blogspot.com for the time being. I also worked up a new logo too.

We had an absolutely wonderful Thanksgiving Thursday and stayed home Thursday and Friday to just relax. We put up the Christmas tree Friday and some lights so now we're ready to hear Christmas music for awhile and watch the presents slowly appear under the tree.

So if you're like me and catch your naughty submissive under the tree before she's suppose to be than give her one, or two, for me!

Girls on T.V. I wanted to spank

2011-11-25T09:06:00.001-08:00

I had it bad, wanting to spank, when I was growing up. So I thought I'd share a few girls on T.V. shows during my years of growing up that I so wanted to put across my lap.

Now admit it. You can see the longing in each of their eyes for a good sound spanking! I wonder if you can name each of them and tell me what shows their from?

Everyday Life

2011-11-24T05:04:00.001-08:00

Yesterday I was sitting on the couch watching one of my favorite movies, Ben Hur. My wife had just brought me a cup of coffee and asked if I wanted anything else. Honestly, I looked up at her standing there and said, "Just your bottom," and she replied, "Naked or with my jeans on?"

"Naked, of course." I said, and she giggled as she began pulling down her very tight jeans and panties. Then, without any muss or fuss she placed herself across my lap so I could rub her soft naked bottom for as long as I wanted. There was no begging, "Please, please, please I want to see your naked bottom." She didn't stand there and say, "Not here! Let's go in the bedroom." She knew, that for me, going anywhere else would ruin the moment.

It's a wonderful exchange. I give her what she wants and needs and she does the same. Most couples do the same thing, maybe, but because of our lifestyle there are a few things we do that many other couples don't. My wife has these jeans that have, I guess you could say, small stud like things on the back pockets. She calls the pants her anti swat pants. I first remarked that they were anti spanking pants and she replied with a giggle, "That's silly! The pants come down for spankings so these are my anti swat pants."

On this Thanksgiving day I am so thankful for her love, understanding and companionship.

Should wives be spanked?

2011-11-21T19:44:00.001-08:00

Today my wife and I were driving around running errands and she started thanking me that I spank her. She explained how, without limits, she would try to get away with as much as she could. Knowing that if she does or doesn't do something will get her bottom spanked gives her a sense of feeling loved and secure. "It's too bad that other wives can't know this feeling", she said.

She also talked about how much of a man, from her point of view, it makes me. There are a few times she gets away with something because I forget to spank her for it but that's different than not being willing to put her across my lap, pull down her panties and blister her bottom when she needs it. To her, being a man isn't just bringing home a pay check. To her it's standing strong and telling her she's crossed a boundary.

I love her so and straight from her lips, yes, "Wives should be spanked!"

A request

2011-11-21T05:45:00.001-08:00

Someone very near and dear to me goes in for triple bypass heart surgery today. So I would like to ask those of you who are spiritual, or religious to keep her in your prayers today.

Cowboy Christmas by Jerry Corelli

2011-11-19T18:32:00.000-08:00

Nu-West "Ann Bowman"

2011-11-19T04:02:00.001-08:00

Nu-West even has her name spelled Ann or Anne Bowman. For those of you who know Ms. Bowman's work you know of her no-nonsense spanking. I wasn't much of a Female spanks female viewer until I saw Ann give Michelle a good sound OTK. Then I was hooked on all her videos.

The first Ann Bowman video I owned was "Michelle meets Ann Bowman".

I really liked her serious and stern look. It was as though she didn't enjoy spanking those naughty butts but more of a "must spank" those naughty butts look.

The one that really did it for me, not that the ones with Eve Howard or Kyrie Kelly didn't, was "Two Punished Wives". I simply loved the premise of the clip. That two husbands take their wives to Ann so she can blister their butts for not being good wives. But, not just that she spanks them but that she spanks them in front of their husbands. And to me the tears seem to be more than real.

For me it's a classic and a must own for every "Ann Bowman" collector.

Paddles for Pain and Pleasure

2011-11-18T03:38:00.001-08:00

We're finally settled into our new place and I'll be starting a few paddle designs that I hope to have displayed sometime next week. I have 3 design ideas already but I'm also going to take special orders too.

Right now I'm looking forward to the weekend and mostly resting. If you have any requests for a type, or style, of paddle drop me an email and I'll see what I can do. Of course I also plan on using the different style of paddles I'll be making in our videos too.

I spank my wife too!

2011-11-17T15:19:00.001-08:00

I go through the day listening to other men I work with talk about their wives or girlfriends and I hear the same thing, always. One of the guys sat down in the kitchen, I suppose, and had his wife cut his hair. This was last weekend. Well, let's just say, he now looks like a P.O.W. Now he claims she was upset at him and I suppose that could be justified, being upset at him I mean. However, cutting off his hair to the point where he was almost bald is not a good way to release her frustration or anger. If my wife had done that she wouldn't be sitting for awhile. I mean really, do you think she should be able to sit after doing something like that?

Another guy said his wife surprised him last Friday by getting her hair cut above the shoulders. Now that would upset me like you can't believe. I mean I don't go around with a heavy hand and spank over every little thing. But when it comes to my wife's long beautiful hair she needs to discuss cutting it before she goes out and does it.

She does a hundred things in her day that don't cause her to think whether she'd get spanked for doing it. It's the other few things that at times trips her up. Some might think it's not fair but she was pro getting spanked even before we met so it's really never a surprise.

I really think that if more wives got there naughty butts spanked the world would be a better place.

Spanking Social Network Sites

2011-11-15T18:38:00.001-08:00

I'd like to know which Spanking Social Network Site you enjoy or like the most.

Another Dominant's Perspective

2011-11-14T03:52:00.001-08:00

It is such a clear understanding that when something needs to be done and isn't or something hasn't been done that should have been, a spanking is on the way. There's no debate, or arguing about it. It's simply cut and dry and right to it. I can't imagine any other way.

The same goes for sexual gratification. My wife feels it's her duty to sexually satisfy me so she does. She enjoys that I come into the kitchen and put my hands all over her while she's cooking or doing whatever. She feels wanted. She made it a point to tell me that it was fine to remind her, with a spanking, if she was lacking in the area of pleasing me sexually too. Spanking can be such a good thing.

Rose Collection Vol 1

2011-11-11T03:47:00.001-08:00

There's no doubt that Rose is one of the favorites at Spank Her 4 Real Videos. So we've decided to begin offering one full hour clips of Rose, her sassy mouth and spanked bottom. The first full hour contains Rose's first 4 clips NO ALCOHOL IN THE HOUSE, NO SWEARING IN THE HOUSE, HOME EARLY and CREDIT CARD.

No Alcohol in the House

No Swearing in the House

Home Early

Credit Card

Due to upload issues beyond our control with Spankinglibrary.com this clip is only available on our Clips4Sale store @ SpankHer4Real

We should form more clubs like this!

2011-11-08T16:00:00.000-08:00

This was a story published some time ago. We need more clubs like this to meet at least once a month.

Thanksgiving is just around the Corner!

2011-11-06T06:07:00.000-08:00

As child growing up in the 60's and 70's Thanksgiving was an all out feast at our home. That was the one dinner when every available table in the house was set up in such a way so every guest had an area for their plate. The Dinning room table was extended as far as it could go. Card tables were used for the kids and the surrounding furniture like the console wood stereo and china cabinet held much of the plates of food to be served.

If there was ever a tradition in our family it was everything that happened on Thanksgiving. Pies, sauces, turkey, stuffing, mashed potatoes, sweet potatoes, biscuits and the list goes on. Then it was off to the livingroom to watch a football game while the women cleaned up and made leftover take home plates for the guests.

Then finally, after all the guests had left it was time to pull out the Christmas tree and set it up. We weren't into going out and cutting down a tree. We didn't have a real tree mostly because it was such a pain to clean up after Christmas. Then from Thanksgiving until Christmas day I would slowly see presents appear under the tree. Some I put there and others of course my parents put there.

Some things have changed regarding Thanksgiving dinner now. For example, I really enjoy cooking much of the meal with my wife. Plus, I'm not into football anymore so I'm right there to help clean up afterward. Now, after setting up the tree, I get to put presents under it for my family like my parents did for me. A present or two just after setting it up and then from Thanksgiving day to Christmas presents tend to just appear, I love it.

Spring Forward, Fall back!

2011-11-04T03:23:00.000-07:00

Or as others might put it "The Return to Standard Time". Yes it's that time again when we have to adjust our clocks either forward or back an hour. Fortunately, we get to set our clocks back an hour and get an extra hour of sleep. That's this Sunday by the way. So before you go to bed Saturday night turn your clocks, all of them, back one hour. If you're like me you've got a watch, alarm clock, car clock, wall clock, etc. Fortunately, the computers and phones generally reset themselves.

Nichole's good sound spanking!

2011-11-01T03:53:00.000-07:00

Nichole Gets Fired!

Sometimes naughty young ladies need their bottom's to burn for quit awhile. Nichole had been told time and time again to not be late for work. Then the day came when she was late for the last time and lost her job. Now she not only has to look for a new job but also has to get a sound spanking for getting fired because of her constant lateness. In this clip Nichole is given a straight through no non-sense spanking.

Implement(s): Hand,

Position(s): OTK, Standing bent over

Time/Price: 8 min / $9.99

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Nichole gets Fired!

2011-10-31T17:37:00.000-07:00

to this (below). I think it's clear that I gave her backside some well needed attention.

After her spanking Nichole listened intently to everything she was told to do. Sometimes all they need is a good sound spanking.

Like always everything comes out alright in the End!

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Top Ten Countries

2011-10-30T06:24:00.000-07:00

The top ten countries viewing my blog are;

Coming in at #10

Russia

Coming in at #9

Netherlands

Coming in at #8

Saudi Arabia

Coming in at #7

Australia

Coming in at #6

Italy

Coming in at #5

France

Coming in at #4

Canada

Coming in at #3

Germany

Coming in at #2

United Kingdom

And coming in at #1 top countries viewing my blog is the good ol' USA.

United States

A thought on Domestic Discipline

2011-10-29T05:19:00.000-07:00

I was at work just shooting the breeze with a fellow worker and mentioned that I had dinner late the night before. He is in his late 20's and thinks a bit differently about things, mostly because he's much younger than I am. Anyway, he asked why and I told him my wife was out running errands. I knew his next statement would be, "So why didn't you make dinner yourself?"

I suppose I wanted to see what his reaction would be so I said, "That's not my job. I have my job and my wife has hers." I wanted to go further and say that when my wife doesn't do her job, at home, she is put across my lap and spanked but I refrained.

His reaction was exactly what I thought it would be when he replied, "What! You're kidding right? Are your hands broken that you can't fix your own dinner?" Now to me his statement comes from a young person who has been, dare I say, brainwashed. I grew up totally believing in equal rights and women's emancipation. At my house, growing up, it was like "Meat Head" (Me) and "Archie Bunker" (my father). We were always getting into it because he was really old fashion and I was a new thinker.

But along life's journey something happened. It happened just after my first marriage ended when a bill collector came after me for a bill that my ex-wife and I signed on. The person stated that they always come after the "Head of the House" for the payment. Head of the house? That was my first big slap in the face that you can talk equal rights all you want but there was nothing equal about this bill collector coming after my money and not hers.

That's when I started realizing that men and women aren't equal, we're different. Now I don't mean that women are less than men and that men are better than women. What I mean is that we are different. It took years of realizing first hand how true that statement is.

Eventually I came to the realization that since the world recognized me, the husband, as the head of the house then I should start acting like one. In other words I was the one responsible, in the end, for how things in my household go or turn out. For me it makes total sense. When I wasn't being the head of the house I could blame most of the problems in my relationships and household on let's just say, not me. But now, and it's been this way for years, the buck stops here.

So, if I come home from a 10 hour day's work and dinner isn't being prepared or ready when I get home then something needs to change. My wife needs to schedule her time better so dinner is ready. Again, I have my job and she has hers. If I don't do my job then a plethora of things could happen, not to mention losing my job. If she doesn't do her job she simply gets put across my lap and spanked. I think she's got it better off.

More Nu-West spankings.

2011-10-23T06:18:00.000-07:00

"Five women spanked out behind the shed" now there's a title. Ed Lee spanks Jodi, Kristy and Nikki. Then Jodi spanks Tabatha and then Karen spanks Katie.

What I liked about this one was the no-nonsense march the girl outside, put her across the lap and spank her bottom.

There's just something about spanking outside that's thrilling to me. As a viewer I really get the impression that I'm someone walking by and come across these girls getting spanked.

Sometimes the best spanking scenes are the one that haven't been given a whole lot of thought. It's just here's what we're going to do and let's do it.

So for a video that has 5 women getting no-nonsense spankings this is the one from Nu-West.

My goal is to capture exciting spanking opportunities whether outside or in the house. The thrill of seeing a naughty bottom getting spanked, when captured just right, can end up being a classic.

Models of Nu-West

2011-10-21T16:50:00.000-07:00

Another Nu-West model I liked was Peaches above and the one getting spanked below.

Nu-West also did doubles spanking. That's Peaches on the front getting her bottom spanked and Eve Howard on the other side getting her bottom tanned.

Another favorite of mine was Katie. I liked Katie's attitude, her bottom and that she could take a good spanking too.

My Favorite Spanking Photos through the years.

2011-10-19T16:59:00.000-07:00

I first discovered spanking in videos in the early 80's at an adult book store. They had the old booths you could put a couple of quarters in and watch what ever 8mm clip they had in stock. There it was, a spanking clip. I'll never forget it. From there I found a few stupid spanking mags but in the back of one was an ad for Nu-West spanking videos.

You sent in 5 dollars for a black and white catalog and if you ordered a video they took 5 dollars off. The above picture was in one of the catalogs and it has always been my favorite. To me it just seems so real. It was taken in someones house and that gave it such authenticity for me.

This was also another Nu-West picture I loved. I don't know what video it's from but I sure love what's coming.

If you don't recognize the bottom it's Eve Howard of "Shadowlane". I really liked Eve Howard videos. She had a look that was priceless. (below)

And then there is Kiri Kelly. She and Eve Howard were my favorites. However, the thing is that all my favorites were from Nu-West because they were real spankings. You knew the girls were models but they took real spankings. Back then it was unbelievably exciting.

The Art of Spanking Too

2011-10-17T04:19:00.000-07:00

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Wow, we've been Nominated for November's Blog of the Month!

2011-10-15T10:37:00.000-07:00

Even if we don't win it's really great to be acknowledged by the Spanking Bloggers Community.

Nichole

2011-10-11T17:48:00.000-07:00

Nichole's bottom needed some firm attention and that's just what she got in her first training session.

In other words, she asked for it and she got it. You don't want to tell me that you want to be trained and then expect not to get spanked. On the contrary. The spankings are very much a part of the training.

Nichole had been fantasizing about me training her and when I walked in on her fingering herself I was to say the least upset with her behavior. She had spent the weekend as Rose's guest and I didn't expect to be training her.

She's expected to give me a weekly report on her activities so I'll see this weekend if more spanking is in order.

I demo of her spanking has been uploaded to Spankingtube but it hasn't shown up yet so keep checking with Spankingtube and it has to show up sometime.

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Nichole's First Training Session

2011-10-08T11:22:00.000-07:00

With Rose in her early 20's and in college she has a large group of friends. Fortunately, many of those friends are girls her age who want and need spankings. Every once in awhile a girl comes along who also wants to be trained like Taylor.

Naughty Nichole has been fantasizing about Ron giving her a spanking for being naughty and then training her in the ways of pleasing a man. Ever since she accidentally got a peak at Rose's bottom, after she had been spanked, Nichole has wanted her bottom to get just as red.

New butts to spank!

2011-09-30T03:46:00.000-07:00

We're all looking forward to new girls coming to Spank Her 4 Real Videos this next week and soon we'll have more clips with Rose and Ember as well. Both new girls are in their early 20's and need their bottoms spanked on a regular basis just like Rose, Taylor and Ember. Of course all submissives need their bottoms spanked on a regular basis. So hoplefully I'll be posting new clips this next week on both of our stores so stay tuned as we head into the Fall.

It's our 3rd Birthday!

2011-09-28T17:16:00.000-07:00

I started this blog on September 18, 2008 and just realized today the blog turned 3 years old. I would never have thought we'd have over a quarter of a million views. Our spankingtube site has over three quarter of a million views.

It seems lately every week we pick up more friends to the site and people who love our videos. We have some new girls coming to Spank Her 4 Real videos and of course our other girls will have new videos showing up too.

Thanks to everyone who has followed us through these past 3 years and we look forward to many more years to come.

Ron

Spank her bottom Soundly!

2011-09-26T03:44:00.000-07:00

So the Poll ended yesterday around 5pm on what you think should happen to my wife regarding her sticky fingers. I do find it interesting that I had over 900 hits yesterday and only 19 votes on the Poll. Well the "Spank her bottom soundly and then forgive her" won with 9 votes. So, that's what happened.

We got home from the Fair and I read the results of the Poll. I went out to the living room, sat down on the couch and ordered her across my lap. She was a bit surprised because it was late and she knew I would be wanting to get to sleep because I wake up early in the mornings for work.

The pants came down, the panties came down, she went across my lap and I didn't stop until I saw a nice red glow on her bottom. I used my hand which I'm told feels like leather and seems to always surprise her as to how hard I spank with my hand. She'll be thinking twice next time she gets sticky fingers.

Her Guilty Conscience gets Her everytime!

2011-09-25T05:46:00.000-07:00

For many submissives and Dom's spanking is a game. However, for many spanking is a way of life and how naughty behavior is corrected. I was laying in bed last night, just about to fall into la la land when my wife came into the room and snuggled up to me in bed. She started talking a little about her day, which I thought at the time was odd because I'd already heard about her day.

That's when she sprang the news about taking something from a store. She wasn't totally clear whether she intentionally took it or it just happened to find its way in her pocket and didn't get paid for at the counter. So the item was $3.99 and she worked hard to justify that it didn't cost much, the store has items donated to it anyway so they got it for free and that she needed the item but didn't have enough to pay for it.

So what would you do? I'm going to post a Poll about this to see what you, the reader, think should happen. The Poll will only be up for 10 or so hours.

A Spanker's Surprise!

2011-09-23T19:47:00.000-07:00

When I started filming spankings I give the submissives in my life I just always assumed everyone would be gaga over the girls and their bottoms getting spanked. I figured they would have fans who would follow their spanking with great enthusiasm and the girls do have their fans. However, I never anticipated having fans myself.

Here's some responses from submissives.

"So how do I get a spanking from you? I'm in Seattle."

"I just wanted to send you a message because I truly enjoy your videos. I am curious...where are you located and if a naughty young lady such as myself was interested in a spanking like the one that you gave Rose in the video "Weekly Maintenance spanking" would that be possible?"

"I wish we were closer, I could use a good spanking like you deliver."

"I was just watching some of your old videos again and felt compelled to send you a message thanking you for the terrific work you do when delivering spankings. Your hand spankings are quite firm, as evidenced by the sound of each impact and the response from the spankees both in the quick reddening of their skin and in their movements. You also do a terrific job with the other implements that you use. I like that you focus mostly on the target area of the bottom and limit the facial views because then I can more readily imagine that it is me in the position of the spankee. Your voice is also quite an asset to your videos...lovely tone and firmness.It's too bad that I live in Texas and am not close enough to be able to experience your spankings first hand...or maybe my bottom is lucky.Thanks again."

I'm always getting comments from submissives on Fetlife, spankingtube and from this blog telling me how they like the way I spank. Thanks to all of you who are admirers.

I like wooden paddles.

2011-09-21T17:13:00.001-07:00

So the other day my wife knew she had a spanking coming. I was sitting on the couch when she finally came up and said she was ready for her spanking. Her jeans came down and off and the her panties followed. She laid across my lap and I began to remind her what the spanking was for and she agreed she had it coming.

What she didn't know was that I had a relatively small wooden cutting board, perfect for spanking, stuffed in the couch cushion behind my back. I pulled it out and the gently smacked her bottom with it. The second she felt the wood touch her bottom she stiffened up and replied, "Oh, no not the paddle!" I only gave her a few smacks with it and then put it aside as I continued spanking with my hand.

She listens well after every spanking and when I told her the next time I would use the paddle she accepted my word as being true. She has yet to re-offend and earn the paddle!

Laugh, laugh and laugh again!

2011-09-18T07:57:00.000-07:00

I know it's early but I just had to post this. This is my favorite, favorite, favorite.

Here's a few of my other favorites.

Just the Spanks, thanks.

2011-09-14T15:48:00.001-07:00

I have been a member of Fetlife for about a year now and I'm still surprised by how few members are into just spanking and a D/D lifestyle. There seem to be an endless supply of people who are into everything under the sun. Many of the activities I can't even name and don't really want to know about.

I was wondering if you, the reader, have as hard a time as I do meeting others who are mainly into spanking? If you know of other social networks out there with mainly spankers let me know too.

For those who gave their lives.

2011-09-11T08:10:00.000-07:00

Taylor Collection Volume I

2011-09-10T05:59:00.000-07:00

Wow, we've been getting requests for this in DVD so we are now offering this in DVD. This full one hour clip is becoming our most successful clip yet. Thanks to all who have ordered it.

This clip contains the first 4 full version clips of Taylor. Naughty Neighbor, Taylor's first training session, Mow your lawn and Taylor's second training session together contain one hour of Taylor getting her bottom spanked, learning the right way how to give a handjob and blowjob. This is a must have clip on how to train your submissive.

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Our Crying Poll!

2011-09-08T03:46:00.000-07:00

Real-Life-Spankings

Our Poll was, "Do you like to see a girl being spanked to the point of crying?"

5% voted "No", that they didn't like to see a girl spanked to the point of crying. I suspect that percentage was given by Spankees but I don't know.

16% voted "some tears".

13% voted that they "Always" want to see a girl being spanked to the point of crying.

19% voted that it's better if she "Sobbing" by the end of the spanking.

45% voted "Yes very Much" that they want to always see a girl spanked to the point of crying.

So over all 77% want to see the Spankee spanked to the point of crying.

Ohh Tee Kay

SpankingteenBrandi.com

I know what I like to see as a viewer but what I like may not always be what others like. However, in this Poll it seems that our viewers like to see what I like to see. I don't think they're a bunch of sadists either. It has more to do with a Bare Bottom Spanking getting the point across to the point were the Spankee cries. If she doesn't get to that point then perhaps the point wasn't made?

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Thanks Spreview.net

2011-09-04T06:52:00.000-07:00

Wow, Spreview.net gave us a write up on their site in the Clip Store section. For those of you who are our big fans do us a favor and leave a reply telling them how much you enjoy our clips. Thank you, Spreview and thank you fans.

"The Inner Circle"

2011-09-02T08:32:00.000-07:00

I started this blog on September 18, 2008 and didn't really start writing much until June 2010. At first I wanted to express my love of spanking and the female form. I wanted to comment on my favorite pictures, videos, models, producers, etc.

Then I came up with the idea of taking pictures from videos and putting my own twist to the stories. In part because some videos that I've watched through the years have had really good action but lame story lines and bad acting. Then others have had good acting but lame action (spanking).

Then there are those producers out there who try to, and produce, really bad spanking videos and picture stills because they aren't into spanking at all. They just think that shooting a girl's nice bottom and saying stupid lines is producing a good spanking clip or video. There's a company out there now, that I won't mention, but they have the most ridiculous clips I've ever seen. The guy that spanks has a cheesy mustache and spanks like he's examining her ass and ass hole. I mean it's really stupid,.. to me anyway.

So then it dawned on me. There are some really good spanking video producers out there like NuWest, Real Spankings, Real-Life-Spankings, etc but there are far more really bad spanking video producers. And the thing is they're all making money. Some are making tons more than others but still they're making money.

So here's the thing. I've been an out of work Union Carpenter who's been able to pick up work here and there for the past 3 years, ever since the bank scandals and bad mortgage loans through the U.S. and other countries into a recession. All the major jobs out there in the building industry lost their funding when some large banks collapsed and it's been a rough road financially for many Americans but especially in my major field of work.

So it hit me. What do I really love doing? What do I have an eye for and know what people want? What do I know people want because I'm also a collector and viewer myself. Well, I do have a great many talents, if I do say so myself but many of my other talents aren't producing extra income.

My wife, at the time, and I were at a Goodwill store and there was an 8mm tape camera for sale, and cheap. So I bought it, took it home and charged the one and only battery and guess what? It worked. I had film editing software already from editing Youtube videos for friends, myself and clients as side work, so because I'm a Real Spanker, in Real Life, I decided to check into making spanking clips myself.

I stumbled on a site that sold independent clips so I didn't have to pay for the cost of building a website for downloading and then stumbled on a second site where I could put a store for downloads too. I had been a member of Spankingtube for about a year and realized that I could upload demos there and perhaps sell a few clips that I produced.

So everything was put into place and our first clip was "No Alcohol in the House". As a viewer I liked the perspective of being the fly on the wall or a person hidden in a closet watching but no one knowing I was there. I don't like it when the camera suddenly zooms in because it takes away the feel that there are only two people in the room, the Spanker and spankee. If a camera zooms in it's because there's someone behind it operating it so, for me, it takes away from the viewing experience. As a Real Spanker every scenario had to be real. That is, real spankings and not silly butt playing taps that bore people to sleep. It had to be with Real submissives who understood the need to be spanked. They couldn't be just models. They had to be real women into the lifestyle of Spanking. Most importantly, when we did a scene it had to be a real punishment spanking they they earned in REAL life.

So, now to the title of this blog for today "The Inner Circle". It's been a long process in advertizing Spank Her 4 Real videos because we didn't start out with any bank role. All of my networking has had to be FREE with links from other blogs or spanking sites helping out. The Inner Circle, as I like to call them, are sites and blogs that aren't at all willing to give me a link because we're not part of THEIR Network or Inner Circle. I've noticed, for example, trying to get on in many forums that they bounce me out because the forum is exclusive to certain spanking sites and they don't want anyone else in their forum who represents a competing clip store.

I'm not sure right now what it's going to take for the other sites to recognize us as a REAL spanking video producer. I do have the feeling that what it takes is advertizing with real $$ and not with FREE links from websites and blogs simply just wanting to help out.

The site we get the most traffic from, to our stores, is Spankingtube.com. But the blogs that we get the most traffic from to this blog, in order from the most to the least hits per month are My Bottom Smarts, The Spanking Bloggers Network, and with out a doubt Chross Guide to the Spanking Internet, D's Naughty Boy Spanking Blog, About Spankings, The Spanking Spot and finally Cutiepie's Sexy Spankings.

To these sites I want to give a huge thanks. And I'm going to update my blog list and Favorite Spanking sites to definitely include all that I've mentioned. We don't want to be the Biggest, or even Best, spanking clip producer out there. We simply want to be true and real to what we are doing. We want our customers to enjoy our clips because they are real and continue to enjoy new clips as we make them.

Sincerely,

Ron Edwards

Spank Her 4 Real Videos

Spreview.net has a NEW look.

2011-09-01T06:46:00.000-07:00

For years "The Consumer's Spanking Video News and Reviews" has been a site I have always checked out to see what's new in the world of spanking. To be honest I don't know how long they've been around but it seems to me like it's been forever. Now in saying that I'd have to say that their webpage above, the look, has been around forever too.

However, I was pleased to discover that there has been quit an update to their site. You can still go to the old site but their new one is more updated and personally I love the look. Here's a link to the site if you've never been to it, which I can't believe an avid spanko has never been to www.Spreview.net

School is just around the Corner

2011-08-31T06:27:00.000-07:00

So it's almost time for school to start up again. We've had a summer that's been filled with everything but spanking. With school beginning again we won't have young ones underfoot so filming will soon get underway. Stay tuned for more bottom blistering action as we go into September.

Ron

Freedom in a Good Sound Spanking!

2011-08-30T13:49:00.000-07:00

Through the years I've heard submissives say they don't always like the spankings they get but do accept the fact that they need and deserve them.

They don't especially like the hours, minutes or even seconds leading up to the moment they go across the lap and their bottoms are bared. But in the back of their mind they do want the spanking, even if and when it's unpleasant.

Why? Because there's freedom in it. They are freed from the anxiety of what will happen to the now it is happening. But most important there is freedom from guilt. Now, finally, they are being punished for their offense and "This too shall pass".

The point when their shorts and panties have slid down to their ankles and their spanking is fully underway, so too is their freedom

Wild Horses Monument

2011-08-28T07:23:00.000-07:00

Just after going East, over the Columbia River, on I-90 in Vantage Washington you can look off to the top of a hill and see this. From the highway they appear to be real horses but they aren't. So of course Ember wanted to pull off to the monument's parking lot so she could climb to the top and take a look at them up close.

Parking lot view of the Columbia River

View from the monument looking down at the parking lot and Columbia River

It was an absolutely beautiful day and the only clouds in the sky were far away. Umm, that rhymed! I'm a poet and didn't know it! Okay anyway, once she was at the top she got a better view of the horses and this is how they look up close.

I simply don't understand why people have to do that. Who ever did it must not have been spanked when they were younger because they should no better. For those who want to take pictures up close it's nearly impossible unless you shoot at just the right angle. Anyway, it's just one more reason someone like myself spanks.

Spankingtube Profile

2011-08-27T07:57:00.000-07:00

I just thought this might be interesting. You can view previews of all our spanking clips on Spankingtube.com

It's hard to believe our clips have been viewed over 600,000 times.

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Spanking Tube Your source for free Spanking and Bondage Videos Taylor Collection Volume 1 - - Spanking Tube

2011-08-26T18:23:00.000-07:00

Spanking Tube Your source for free Spanking and Bondage Videos Taylor Collection Volume 1 - - Spanking Tube

http://www.spankingtube.com/user/spankher4real

Taylor's Collection Volume I

2011-08-25T16:49:00.000-07:00

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Dave Wolfe who does "Wolfietoons"

2011-08-25T08:46:00.000-07:00

Just wanted to share some of my favorite drawings from one of my favorite artists, Dave Wolfe.

You can find his blog here wolfietoons

SpankHer4Real's Potpourri Volume I

2011-08-24T06:51:00.000-07:00

Bare bottom, butt blistering, hand spankings, paddlings, belt spanking and crying scenes taken from BAD GRADES, ROSE'S BAD DRIVING, TAYLOR MOW YOUR LAWN, EMBER'S COURT PUNISHMENT, THE TAILS OF ROSE and EMBER, ROSE'S WEEKLY MAINTENANCE SPANKING, JENNA'S PROJECT, DAD'S TOOLS, TAYLOR'S FIRST TRAINING SESSION, JENNA'S MEDICATION, EMERGENCY NUMBER, TAYLOR'S SECOND TRAINING SESSION and IMPORTANT MESSAGE.

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Here's some medicine when you don't take your medicine.

2011-08-23T04:07:00.000-07:00

Jenna hasn't been taking her medication like she should be. So first comes a hand spanking over her pants and panties, then later with them down.

As a result gets her bottom soundly spanked. Then the ping pong paddle is used and she begins to start crying.

Ron the a belt and paddle too. Ron removes his belt and her crying goes into bawling as the paddle comes into play.

Jenna learns the hard way that if she doesn't take medicine her doctor prescribes, Ron has a way of prescribing his own medication.

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Another Dominant's Perspective

2011-08-21T09:44:00.000-07:00

Many years ago I was a submissive and wanted to be spanked for two reasons. One was to purge me of a guilty conscience and the other was that I really enjoyed it. Then, one day I met a couple and he wanted me to top his submissive. After that I was forever a Dominant.

So, for me, I know both worlds. The desires of the submissive and of course the Dominant. Personally, I think that makes a better Dom. I've met really young Dom's in their twenties who were just Dom's because they weren't submissives. Their world is made up of trying to boss others around and think that makes them a Dom.

When I was a submissive I would have never thought of being topped by someone around my age. They had to be older by at least 15 years or so. Today I am mostly, in Real Life, Domestic Discipline. The wonderful woman I'm with gets spanked for being defiant or for disobeying me but it's not like she gets spanked everyday or even once a month. She gets spanked when a spanking is called for and she never has to worry about me trying to find something to spank her 4.

Our videos stay in the Real part of life. We don't sit around an make up things that submissives should be spanked for. What happens is they do something that causes them to get spanked for Real.

Phony as Hell.

2011-08-20T14:31:00.000-07:00

The letter below came to my spam box and I wanted to share this with you.

FROM: AGENT SCOT RAY

SPECIAL AGENT IN CHARGE

FEDERAL BUREAU OF INVESTIGATION

INTELLIGENCE FIELD UNIT

2635 CENTURY PARKWAY N.E.,

SUITE 400

ATLANTA, GA 30345 USA

URGENT ATTENTION

I am special agent Scot Ray; from the Intelligence Unit of the Federal Bureau of Investigation (FBI). We just intercepted/confiscated two (2) Trunk Boxes at the Hartsfield Jackson International Airport in Atlanta Georgia. We are on the verge of moving this consignment to the bureau headquarters. However, we scanned the said boxes and found out that it contained a total of USD4.7M and some back up documents which bears your name as the owner of the funds. Investigation carried out on the Diplomat who accompanied these boxes into the United States, revealed that he was to make the delivery of the funds to your residence as these funds are entitled to you, been Contract/Inheritance over due payments. The funds were from the office of the Ministry of Finance of the Federal Republic of Nigeria.

Furthermore, after cross checking all the legal documents we found in the boxes backing you up as the beneficiary of the funds, it became known to us that one of the documents is missing. This document is very important and until we get the document, the boxes will be temporarily confiscated pending when you will provide it. The much needed document is the Diplomatic Immunity Seal of Delivery Certificate (DISDC). This document will protect you from going against the US Patriot Act Section 314a and Section 314b . This delivery will be tagged A Diplomatic Transit Payment (D.T.P) once you get the document.

You are therefore required to get back to me on this email (agentscot@fbi-us.us)within 72 hours so that i will guide you on how to get the much needed document. Failure to comply to this directives may lead to the permanent confiscation of the funds and possible

arrest. We may also get the Financial Action Task Force on Money Laundering (FATF) involved if do not follow our instructions. You are also advised not to get in contact with any Bank in Africa, Europe or any other institution, as your funds are here now in the United States of America.

AGENT SCOT RAY

SPECIAL AGENT IN CHARGE

FEDERAL BUREAU OF INVESTIGATION

INTELLIGENCE FIELD UNIT

2635 CENTURY PARKWAY N.E.,

SUITE 400

ATLANTA, GA 30345 USA

agentscot@fbi-us.us

CONFIDENTIALITY NOTICE: This communication and its attachments may contain non-public, confidential or legally privileged information. The unlawful interception, use or disclosure of such information is prohibited. If you are not the intended recipient, or have received this communication in error, please notify the sender immediately by reply email and delete all copies of this communication and attachments without reading or saving them.

Like Minded People.

2011-08-19T09:00:00.000-07:00

I love to meet like minded people who share my views regarding Spanking. It makes me feel part of something. I don't feel alone in the world. There was a time when I thought I was the only person in the world who was into spanking.

My first venture into the world of Spanking was in the early 80's and there was NO where to find spanking information except adult book stores. Now with the internet it is so much easier to find like minded people.

So to all of you who follow my blog I'd like to say "Thank you". Thank you for being like minded and becoming part of a community.

Spank Her 4 Real Forum

2011-08-18T09:33:00.000-07:00

So I've been joining "Spanking Forums" as a way of connecting with other spankos and as a way to network and advertize SpankHer4Real videos. I've also joined Yahoo Groups that pertain to spanking as well. But on many of the forums I've joined they bump me off after I post a thread to one of our videos. Now understand, if they have a problem with Spanking Sites posting on threads then I don't join. However, when I see there are multiple postings with a wide variety of Spanking Site threads then, to me, it seems okay to post a thread.

But alas, it seems many of the forums are exclusive to posting spanking clips that point to their sites. Many spanking forums also have multiple BDSM stuff going on too. So, I started my own "Forum" called, what else, Spankher4Real Forum. So just click the link and join if you'd like. My only rules so far are "No posting of Minor Content" and I'd like to keep it just for those into Spanking.