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When she consents to being trained it's good for both of you!

Taylor's Second Training Session

After Taylor is soundly spanked for her behavior and attitude regarding mowing her lawn, she's sent to dad's room for more training.

Taylor, the naughty neighbor, needs to learn her place so she knows that when she's told to do something she's to do it.

She is spanked, told to give a handjob, spanked again and told to give a blowjob and then spanked again so she knows that if she doesn't swallow she will be given yet another sound spanking.

(Important Note: The women in Spank Her 4 Real Videos are NOT professional models. The are REAL women who get Spanked 4 Real.)

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The Sweetest Surrender!

There is nothing that compares with the sweet surrender of a woman submitting to a spanking.

She knows she's done something wrong and needs her behavior corrected so she's willing to bare herself and accept your discipline. She wants to correct her behavior, she wants you to do it, that's the sweetest surrender to me.

Those who don't understand the relationship between a Spanker and spankee think of it as strange, kinky or even wrong but the relationship between the two runs deep.  There's a trust between the two that almost can't be defined.

Many submissives I've spanked view their freshly reddened bottom as a trophy to their submission.  If they could, they would walk around bare bottomed showing the rest of the world their so called "Badge of Honor".

And for every submissive I've trained through sex & spanking there's no hotter and more intense sexual experience they've ever had either.

Spanking brings order!

For me, spanking brings order in my world.  I couldn't begin to count all the times I've heard, "I'm sorry" and still her behavior doesn't change.  But when she knows there are consequences and more importantly she wants consequences for her bad behavior to be in place then the "I'm sorry" she is saying out loud becomes, "I'm getting a spanking" in her head. 

There is something about a very warm bottom that lingers for hours after a good spanking that causes her to feel cared about and even loved.  She feels good about having a man in her life who is willing to give her what she needs, even though it's not always what she wants.

However, some so want that spanking.  At times it's because they have done something they really feel guilty about but don't want to confess or admit it.  So they do something else to get spanked but in their mind they are getting spanked for something else.  Sometimes they want to get spanked just so they can feel that burn throughout the day so they intentionally do something they shouldn't.

For whatever the reason, spanking brings order in many ways.  For me it's a true affirmation that she is sincerely "sorry" and not just saying it.  She truly believes her behavior was wrong and needs to be corrected. 

Spanking,..it is what you make it.

I came upon this and wanted to share some thoughts about it.  It's a comment made from one of my blog entries in 2014 called "I spank my wife too."  

Why, if this is all in innocence and love, do you spank while naked with other girls other than your wife? It's one thing to fill the father role for others who have lacked it, but add sexuality into encounters with others during , what us supposed to be loving discipline? And even fantasizing about little 19 year old girls learning to do fellatio on you? Terribly disturbing and undermines what I thought was a loving Dd relationship with your wife.... I am confused....

She says she's confused and I'm not surprised. I get comments like this from time to time and when I do I just shake my head.  There are so many of these people and all these blogs and all these organizations out there that spout "Their" view, or belief, regarding what "Spanking" is and isn't.  I've met these people too.   And they're like meeting a religious fanatic.  If you don't believe their definition of what "Spanking" is and isn't then you're strange, or perverted.  And I've had many of them try to convert me too.   Like they're on a religious quest to save those who believe spanking isn't what they believe. 

So first of all what's wrong with fantasizing about a 19 year old girl learning to give head?  If she was 65 would the fantasy be O.K? Apparently, spanking other submissives while I'm naked doesn't meet with her approval either.

I hear from people all the time who tell me spanking and sex together is wrong, immoral and so on.  Come on people!  Spanking between two consenting adults is whatever it is for those two adults.  You have no idea how many blogs there are out there, perhaps 1000's, that I disagree with.  And we're not talking just spanking now.  I mean pick a topic.  Cooking, gardening, car maintenance, clothes, cleaning and cleaning products, environment and the list is endless.  I prefer to fry my chicken in Vegetable oil using a cast iron skillet.  If you prefer frying chicken using Corn oil and a different kind of skillet then so be it.  I wouldn't say you're wrong and you shouldn't say I'm wrong. 

I've met "Spankers" who have this "Code" they go by.  When you talk to them they seem regimental and kind of military.  O.K. so what?  If that works for them and others in their life who am I to say it's the wrong way to look at spanking?

I've read a lot of "Spanking Blogs" out there and some are "way out there" and others seem to not be "out there" enough.  Many I agree with and many I don't.  They have their point of view and I have mine.

When I first met "Taylor", one of the women in my videos, we sat down and talked for some time before we started filming any videos.  She expressed what she wanted and so did I.  She wanted certain things to happen during her "Training sessions".  I have met and talked to a lot of submissives who want to be pushed.  They want to go past their limits and explore something they haven't done before.  For many of them it releases them from responsibility.  If they've NEVER swallowed but wanted to at least once and the only way they feel they could is with the threat of getting a blistering spanking then they'll do it.  Many submissives want their limits pushed and exceeded.  That's what we did in the Taylor Training Videos.  To some, like the woman who made the comment above, this kind of spanking video is "terribly disturbing".  Well guess what.  I find many images and videos that the local and national news decide to air also "terribly disturbing". I find watching videos of people cracking up and getting hurt "terribly disturbing".   But quit honestly I don't HAVE to watch the news and I don't watch videos of people cracking up on skate boards.

So my point is this.  I'm okay with your view of how you look at spanking.  If you're not okay with mine then get off my blog and read blogs that you agree with.  If you don't like my spanking videos because it doesn't meet your purist standards of what spanking is then DON'T buy them!  In fact, here's a better idea. Start your own blog and write about your feelings, thoughts and attitude toward spanking.  And start your own spanking video store and make the kind of spanking videos YOU feel should be made.

About 4 years ago I got a letter from a fan saying they loved all the videos with "Rose".  Then they made the comment, or asked the question, "Don't you think that your daughter Rose will be upset if she finds out that you secretly filmed her spankings and put them on sale over the net?"  I was so shocked by that, that I couldn't even answer them back.  In other words this fan was convinced that Rose was my REAL and TRUE life daughter.  If that was true then I would find that "terribly disturbing"! 

5th Year Blog Anniversary!

It was in September 2008 that I started this blog.  I wrote about my favorite spanking sites.  I suppose they are still my favorite with my own spanking site included now, www.spankher4real.com.

My intention was simply to write about my thoughts and feeling regarding spanking and spanking videos.  That led doing short stories using pictures from other spanking videos.  The thing I always know about spanking videos was that they were models.  That was still okay if the spankings were real and not fake and many were and still are real even though the models are models.

What I wanted to do was get real women who needed and many times wanted a spanking and film them.  I uploaded my first video in Feb of 2011 and I can't believe how difficult it's been to find spankees.  

The blog has been a great way for me to express how I feel about spanking and at times vent.  There are still women I seem to see throughout my week that I'd love to put across my lap.  

I haven't written much lately because there have been news reports all the time about some guy capturing women and I hope I'm not feeding anyone into wanting to fullfil that fantasy and make it reality.

The Desire to Spank!

I get readers from time to time who comment on something I've written by telling me I'm wrong about something I've written.  No offense but if I'm writing about how I feel how can it be wrong?  How can my opinion about what I believe or feel be wrong.  Perhaps a reader doesn't agree with it but that's fine.  It's how I feel about it so it's not wrong.

So, with that out of the way I thought I'd write a little because I finally have the time to.  My desire to spank isn't out of a sadist desire to inflict pain on anyone.  My desire to spank is to correct bad behavior.  I don't expect anyone to be perfect.  What I do expect, but it rarely happens, is that others basically do the right thing.  Again, I'm not perfect but I do work at doing the right thing.

There are days when I do wish I was Chief of the Spanking Patrol and could issue Spanking Tickets to women.  There are times I just nod my head and say, "What is she thinking."  But, it's real life and I don't get upset about it.

I do admire though the young and older women who have contacted me expressing the need and desire for spankings and training.  It means far more to me that they willingly and voluntarily seek me out for spankings.  It takes a lot to humble oneself and admit and submit to a spanking.

So my desire to spank is only from a submissive submitting to it.  Does that make sense?  I couldn't imagine spanking a brat who didn't willingly submit to it.  It not only wouldn't do any good but it would be, in my opinion, immoral. 

A Good Spanking is good for the soul.

"LeAnne's Alcohol Stash"

I've talked to many submissives, and read their comments, about how a good spanking til they cry is a cleansing feeling.  For many, or even most, it's a feeling of starting over once the spanking is through.

"LeAnne's Alcohol Stash"

Never too old to be spanked!

It is most certainly a fact with me that a female over 18 years old is never too old to be spanked.

Some of the young women I've put across my lap, over and over again, who have moved away still contact me expressing their deep desire for me to spank them.

  

It's a feeling of being cared about and even loved.  "If you care about me and don't approve of my bad behavior, then do something about it," is the expression I hear over and over.

I've heard from several woman in their early 20's, who I've spanked, that they don't even like dating "boys" close to their age because they're so immature.

They express the idea that the reason they wouldn't even think about spanking is because they, the boys, need to be spanked themselves.

Where have all the men gone?