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Spanking my wife vs. Abusing my wife

There seems to be two ideas going around when it comes to spanking.  One is that spanking, for real, is abusive and the second idea is that spanking is something you do when you're having sex and occasionally give her a swat or two on the ass.   

My wife and I are in total agreement that striking a woman any where besides her bare bottom is abusive.  I have met women who actually want to be slapped in the face.  It's more of a fetish for them.  Somewhere in there past they learned to desire it.  I couldn't do it.

My wife totally trusts that when I tell her it's spanking time she knows that she deserves one.  For her it's how she keeps stabilized in life.  It's her proof that I'm the head of the house and man enough to do what needs to be done.

For example, I have never grabbed her by the arm and forced her across my lap or dragged her in the bed room.  The perception for many is that spanking is this violent action that takes place for the Spanker to release their anger in an unhealthy way.  That's not how it has ever been for me.

I am very controlled when it comes to many things in life and when it comes to spanking I'm even more controlled.  If and when there are moments when I am angry about my wife's behavior there's ALWAYS a cool down period when I take time to reflect on my being upset with her.  Moments that I've been really upset, or angry, with my wife's behavior has only happened once and she was actually the first to recognize she should be, or would be, in trouble and get spanked.

For us spanking isn't something that just happens in our relationship.  Spanking is something we talk about all the time and there hasn't been any place we aren't able to talk about it.  We've been in a grocery store, park, concert, church, back yard, etc. and the subject has come up.  Whether it's her noticing a woman's ass in the store, nudging me and asking in a playful way, "Do you think she gets spanked?"  And I'll reply, "I hope so."  Then there have been times when she hears a couple arguing and the wife is simply being disrespectful or bratty and I'll hear my wife say, "It doesn't look like she gets spanked at all.  If she did she wouldn't act that way."

When I spank my wife I make sure I get my point across!

There seems to be a lot of people and groups out there who don't really know how to spank.  They think it's all play stuff.  You give a swat and then rub the bottom.  Give another swat and cop a feel. So, this is how I properly spank my wife!

Sometimes just the threat is enough!

So my wife was having a stressful day and decided to text me with a rather lengthy bitch session. She did that for about 3 texts over a 30 minute period. I was at work and couldn't deal with her texts at the time. About an hour later I got some free time and read her texts. 90% of what she had written was her merely taking out her frustrations on me. So I texted her back and told her the way I would be settling the problems she mentioned was by baring her bottom and giving her a good blistering. I didn't hear back from her for about 2 hours and just before I left from work I got a very apologetic text that read she was very sorry for venting like that and she was wrong. In addition she admitted she shouldn't have written what she did and that she would be ready for her spanking when I got home.

Give her want she needs and get what you want too!

I'm sure there's more than a few women out there who need their bottom burning for not keeping up the house like they're suppose to.  Not to mention a few out there who need a cock deep inside their throat so they stop talking back and a good ol fashion fucking cause he wants to fuck.

 

Holly's Bad House Keeping Lesson!

Holly wanted to arranged containers she was storing items in but was taking her sweet time doing it. Ron finally had enough and waited for her to show up so he can teach her what happens when she doesn't follow through with things.

 

Her dress goes up and the panties come down for yet another sound spanking. This time there's a bit more training involved and a good hard fucking, from behind, as Ron gives her bottom a sound smack when he thrusts deep inside her. In the end she's made to swallow while her sore red bottom sticks proudly in the air.

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For those wondering about my I Spank My Wife Blog

It's been a hectic year for my wife and me with work, family and so much to do in our everyday life.  I got rid of the rules area in my I Spank My Wife blog because she wasn't following any of them and I would have had to spank her everyday because of it.  With our schedules that didn't seem fair so she basically has no rules anymore.  Since she hasn't been spanked in awhile anyway and probably won't get much in the future either I decided, "What's to write about?"  I haven't gotten rid of it it's just in private mode for now.

Late, late and always late!

"LeAnne's late for work Spanking."

I have lived a more than a few decades now and it there's one constant in this world that has pretty much stayed the same it's women and being late.  There are tons of reasons why a woman is late and she will indeed take even more time to explain it.  That of course causes her to be late,..again.

"LeAnne's late for work Spanking."

Here's the thing too.  She knows that if she's late, she's going to have her panties pulled down and spanked and she's late anyway.

"LeAnne's late for work Spanking."

There are times when I do believe that women want a spanking even though they will tell you they don't.  I think it's an attention thing.  Perhaps for some they want the feeling of baring their bottom and exposing themselves?  Maybe it's a feeling of being cared for and cared about?  Maybe it's just that they know they need a good spanking to help keep them on the path?

The sign her spanking is working!

There is a lot to be said about a woman who submits to a well deserved spanking.  Whether she likes to be spanked or not Discipline spankings given by the Head of the House can be a bit more unbearable.

As witnessed in this short clip you can tell her spanking is working and getting through to her because her legs are quivering as she does, what I refer to as, her "Lap Dance".

I have far more respect for a woman who submits to a spanking from me than one who comes up with the line, "I'm too old to be spanked, or punished." 

Once she's taught her place, that is across my lap when I say so, then she is so much more enthusiastic when it comes to pleasing me.

   

Giving her bottom that nice red glow teaches her the importance of submission like she's never learned before.

  

It's important, when training, that she fully understands that pleasuring me is the most important thing at that moment.  Her reminder is of course more smacks to her already tender behind.

  

I have found that submissives are wired, so to speak, to please and that a good spanking helps them in that process.  It reinforces just what it is I like and don't like.

There motivation to please is intensified when they learn with a sore bottom.

After giving Holly a good reminder on an already tender and red bottom she went to her knees, engulfed my rod and worked me like she should have from the beginning.  After that spanking it didn't take long at all for her to get me to cum.

   

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Explaining my Blog

Like most spanking enthusiasts I explore the web to discover blogs that share my views, or at least some of my views, on spanking and the female bottom.  There are blogs without pictures that have stories, fiction and or non-fiction, and there are blogs that have nothing but pictures with little to no writing.  Some blogs are very plain in their design and look and others aren't.  That got me thinking about my blog, or blogs.

For me personally I like sites and blogs that are busy.  That is sites that give me a lot to look at and read with places to go withing the site or blog.  I like spanking polls for example, spanking pictures, fun spanking, serious spanking and so on.  I realized that my blog is, or would be considered, busy.  

My blog role or list shows blogs I like to read or go to and blogs that share similar interests in spanking.  I have links that can direct a viewer or reader to my spanking clips if they want to purchase any.  

Personally I hate clicking a link that takes me to pop ups that give me trouble trying to get out of the site.  I'm not sure how to explain those or what they're called but when I do go to one of those sites it's usually the last time.  So I don't have any of those links on my blogs.  

I have different blogs because it helps me categorize.  Some days I feel or need to write about my wife and our relationship so I have my I spank my wife blog.

Other times I get ideas regarding a fictional story I have rolling around in my brain so I write about that in Going Home to Spankingville.

Other times I post a new clip of a Spankee that has recently been across my lap and I put a link to my Clips4Sale store.  

And so on and so forth with why my blog is so busy looking.  Again I like there to be a lot of things to look at or go to and for some reason I felt the need to explain it. 

How do I get my wife to let me Spank her?

I am frequently ask, "How do I get my wife to let me Spank her?"  I in turn have to ask, "Spank for Real, as in Domestic Discipline?" or "Spank for fun, as in sexual pleasure?"

I suppose there are a lot of factors?  Spanking for fun would seem to be much easier to convince your partner that it's something you'd like to get into.  Doesn't every husband give his wife a smack on her bottom from time to time?  As hard as it sounds, or as easy as it sounds, you have to communicate.  I've found that MOST people want to sexually please and be pleasured by their partner.  If you want to spank your wife then she has to be told your desires.  It very well might be that she's thought about being spanked but feels odd asking for it.  The only way to get what we want is to go for it.

Now if spanking for "Real" is the question then it's different.  First, in one way your wife "submits" to spankings, in that she lets you spank her.  But, in another way it's more like "I spank, you submit to it".  With my wife and me it was talked out and agreed upon first.  In other words for me it was right up there on top of the list of things to agree about first.

If you're married already and haven't discussed Domestic Discipline then it's a bit different.  If you've been, how should I say this, a wimp in your marriage then it's unlikely you'll be able to convert your wife into agreeing to a Domestic Discipline marriage.  However, let's take my wife for example.  She's very intelligent and educated however by her own admission she's a bit scatter brained and chaotic.  She has a difficult time with organization and has no concept of how much time goes by.  By her own admission she NEEDS direction.  She has a strong desire to please me and when she feels she hasn't she gets upset with herself.  She isn't into pain but would much rather get a good sound spanking to put her on track than to have me upset with her.  She functions much better with consequences to her actions. 

So, if your wife has similar traits to mine then you could probably win her over to a Domestic Discipline lifestyle.  However, it does take consistency on your part.  When it's time to spank you have to spank and not let her get away with things.  I've found that the reality is the less I let her get away with things the more respect I get from my wife because I stand my ground and that's what she needs and wants.